by Desh Nautilus Ltd 🛑 Before You Say “Let’s Buy Land Together”…
Let’s paint a picture.
Chuka and Amaka just got married. They’re in love, they have dreams, they believe in generational wealth.
So Chuka says,
“Babe, let’s buy land together.”
Amaka responds,
“Yesss baby! Let’s build our future!”
Beautiful. Goosebumps. Love in the air.
But 6 months later, Chuka’s mother asks,
“Whose name is on the document?”
Now the story begins.
💬 Buying Property as a Couple: It’s Not Just Love, It’s Strategy
Buying property as a couple is not the same as buying matching pajamas.
It’s more like starting a mini real estate business together, with love and emotions mixed into the mortgage.
At Desh Nautilus, we’ve seen it all.
Couples who buy smart and smile forever.
And couples who fight over land location like it’s Jollof rice at a wedding buffet. 🍚🔥
So let’s talk real.
Here’s what you and your partner must agree on first before you sign anything, pay any deposit, or drag each other to site inspections.
🧠 1. Why Are You Buying? (No, Seriously. WHY?)
Are you buying to:
- Build your forever home?
- Flip it in a few years?
- Landbank for the kids?
- Rent it out and cash in every month?
Because if one person is thinking “quiet family home” and the other is dreaming “Airbnb money”, there’s a problem brewing.
🔑 Why This Matters:
Different goals = different locations, different budgets, and different expectations.
And in Platinum Square, for example, we’re seeing both types of buyers, homebuilders and investors, because it serves both purposes.
But you two need to be on the same page first.
🏦 2. Who’s Paying What (and How)?
Ah, the famous “joint contribution” conversation.
Love is sweet, but land is expensive. 🤑
So talk numbers. Honestly. No assumptions.
- Are you splitting 50/50?
- Is one person paying upfront and the other handling building?
- What if one person loses their job midway?
🔑 Pro Tip:
Put it in writing. Not because you don’t trust each other, but because clarity is peace.
In fact, at Desh Nautilus, we recommend couples have a signed payment agreement, even if informally, before committing to any property deal. It saves you tears later.
🏘 3. Location, Location, Compatibility!
She wants somewhere quiet, safe, and close to church.
He wants somewhere close to his office, gym, and pepper soup joint.
Enter Lekki Scheme II, the compromise zone.
Safe, serene, and central enough to please both heart and hustle.
🧭 Our Advice:
When buying property as a couple, find a location that matches both your lives and future plans.
The best land deals aren’t just affordable, they’re agreeable.
📄 4. Whose Name Goes on the Documents? (Yes, Talk About It!)
We know this topic makes people sweat.
But if you’re not married under the law, or even if you are, you need to decide:
- Is it one name, joint names, or a company name?
- Who holds the documents?
- What happens if… God forbid… things go south?
🚨 Don’t Skip This:
Too many couples ignore this until it becomes a courtroom discussion.
At Desh Nautilus, we offer document structuring guidance and can suggest ways to title the property based on your relationship, legal status, and future plans.
Yes, we sell properties, but we sell peace of mind too.
🧱 5. What’s the Timeline?
One person is ready to build next month.
The other is still saving for tiles.
Be realistic. Discuss timelines for:
- Payment
- Allocation
- Development
- Moving in or reselling
We always tell our buyers at Platinum Square:
“The land is ready. The question is, are you both ready for the same thing?”
💔 Real Talk: Love Without Land Clarity Can Get Messy
Let’s be honest, buying property as a couple can either:
- Strengthen your bond, or
- Expose silent disagreements.
But if you communicate early and clearly, it’s one of the smartest and most powerful decisions you can make together.
Because land doesn’t just give you something to stand on, it gives your relationship something to stand for.
💡 Final Word from Desh Nautilus:
Couples who invest together… secure their future together.
But only if they start with shared vision, strategy, and honest conversations.
We’ve seen the regrets. We’ve seen the wins.
And we know how to guide you both through it, from inquiry to allocation.
📍 Platinum Square is still open.
💬 DM us “COUPLE” to get started with a no-pressure walkthrough.
📞 Call us for location updates and flexible payment options.
🤝 Let’s help you and your partner own something solid, together.
📩 Click here to start a free consultation
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